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Graceful Exits and Burned Bridges
Imagine
a co-worker who trashes his cubicle, plays practical jokes on his
replacement and slinks off with the copier on his last day of work.
1. Keep your mouth shut. Leaving a job (like ending a personal
relationship) is strictly a private matter; and waving your dirty
laundry serves no purpose.
2. Stay cool. Even in the context of a
confidential
exit interview, there’s nothing to gain from scorching the Earth.
3. Keep your distance. Soliciting support (or fomenting dissent) from your
co-workers might create the impression of a conspiracy or coup d’etat—and unwittingly implicate innocent people.
4. Burn bridges at your own peril. The company you left yesterday may need
your services tomorrow. If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t
say it. Sure, it’s easy to be gracious when everything’s rosy. But it takes an extra dose of character to act like an adult when the going gets tough. If you’re ever caught in a sudden employment shift, try to maintain your composure and consider the consequences of your actions. Workplace
trends
like flexible schedules and casual Fridays may come and go, but good manners are forever. Otherwise, Shakespeare
wouldn’t have written,
A
person is remembered for his entrances and exits.
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